Grief can be like a stone mountain. You can't get over it, You can't get around it, and You feel like you are never going to get through it.
Visit www.thegriefblog.com for advice and to connect with others who are going through the same stone mountain. Sometimes you just need to talk to or (blog with) others that are objective but have been going through the same pain. Check it out and connect to someone who understands.